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When it's a relationship, it's deeper than just sex.
During the honeymoon phase, sex is great. But the intimacy that you had during that time is hard to hang onto. It takes a lot of work and effort. I can hear it in your tone and the way you talk about sex, about what you've done for her, to help her. But the fact that you don't know what's going on despite having spoken with her about it clues me in that intimacy may just be what's lacking.
Sex is great but, for most women I know, becomes lackluster without intimacy. And, for the record, intimacy isn't about talking when you need an answer to a question.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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