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Originally Posted by Anonymous Member
My question is, how do you stop yourself liking someone when you know it isnt right and you know the circumstances are wrong?
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I don't know that there's one blanket answer to this that applies to everyone. I've personally found that distraction is a powerful tool in this instance, when combined with avoiding the person as much as is practical given your environment. If you're thinking about *her* at your office, you're probably not concentrating on your work. Get back to work! Not only will you be more efficient, but your mind will be otherwise occupied and not as free to wander to thoughts of her. If you've finished all your work, Minecraft!
I also suggest ramping up your personal life. If you're single and in a position to look for a special someone, go for it. It's better to find someone who you can see yourself being with than pining after someone you can't.