The_Jazz

I know! I know! Ass, right? Amiright or amiright?

Wait, that's the answer to the wrong question...

You know what TFP is full of? No, not that. Armchair psychiatrists that love to help. Honestly, it's one of the things that keeps me around here. If nothing else, we love to help people that at least appear to have a sincere desire to be helped. Oh, and they have to at least appear to not be morons. Clear those hurdles and we're all over the problem like a Packers fan at a free beer-and-cheese buffet.

I agree with you - we're lacking some information to come to a definitive answer. That's why my first post reads like it does. I can't answer a lot of the questions for the OP. There are some scarey red flags in there, but it could be that the boyfriend is just your typical 18 year old oversexed bonehead. Or he could be a serial rapist in the making. Hard to tell which, but I think folks are erring on the side of caution with their responses.

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