I think that you should stay with him and have lots of children together. Obviously he's never going to do it again and will henceforth be the paragon of virtue. I mean he told you about all the bad shit that he was willing to tell you about (anyone else think that there's probably more that's unconfessed?) a whole year after he did it! Let's forget about those pesky repeated intimate and illegal violations of your roommates' computers! After all, he's a changed man! Go out and procreate!
Seriously, though, think about it. Is this the guy you want to father your kids? Do you want to grow old with him? Do you think he's had some sort of epiphany that will stop this sort of thing? Do you think it's more or less likely that he'll escalate his behavior?
I don't have the answers. You do. I am curious, though. If the answer is "no" to enough of the first 3, then you've got advice for that. If it's "yes", I'd like to hear more.
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