What he did was, without question, morally reprehensible. Wrong.
With that said, I'm thinking asking the OP to explain why she sees so differently what most would consider to be pretty black and white would probably get a bit more mileage out of this discussion, bring about some actual understanding and maybe make the advice offered stick.
As well as playing devil's advocate, I'm thinking it might be too soon to define the op's experiences for her (even if that's what she's asking for.) I'm just listening.
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