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I write her notes telling her I'm thinking of her, buy her flowers for no reason, tell her she is beautiful/sexy.
The sex has been just regular sex, I have brought it up and she agrees that she wants to mix it up. I try to change it up and do different things but she doesnt take a roll in things. Then she goes back to the same old - same old.
I have books with hundreds of ideas... bought sexy clothing for her, toys, just got the TENS unit (she tried it, says she like it but nothing.... ). Never have I had this problem, its like pulling teeth with a tooth pick!
As far as feeling good about herself, she has the small hang ups everbody goes through every now and then but nothing major. I am always telling her she is beautiful and that I love being with her.
Not sure about her past, what the father of her kid put her through. She doesnt say aything and never hinted towards problems but.... never know. As far as I can tell, thats not it.
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