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The only person responsible for fulfilling your sexual cravings and needs is you. Trying to tell her whatever she wants is secondary as long as she is giving you the things you want is about the most surefire way to quelch any desire that I can think of.
If you know now know that what was advertised is not reality in your viewpoint, you have limited options. You can talk to her about how you can fulfill those avenues if she is not willing to be the person to do them. You can choose to forgo. Or, you can choose to find someone who is more a compatible match for you if it is truly that big a deal.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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