Thanks for input, folks. First off, after another communication w the model red flags went up and my Lady & I decided to put this one on hold for now. It looks like the young lady is a bit of a borderline personality who is looking to use her body and my exploration of her personal journey artistically as a form of therapy. As my Lady put it, she doesn't want to come home some day to find our dog in a pot on the stove. So that's that.
The suggestions of web cams and chaperones and such - they are well meant but not really where I was going when I made the post. I was more interested in what differences in attitude and response a man and a woman would have in such a situation. It would be interesting to hear if anyone has had any sort of similar situations in their own lives.
It is true that my Lady has known I've always been interested in art, the female form, and utilizing that form as part of my interpretive tool kit. Just like I've always known she has been handling naked men as part of her career path. Neither of us are concerned that the other will do anything beyond our personal boundaries, and transparency is always part of our relationship. I may have another opportunity arise in future, and if the model seems stable and genuine it will work out differently.
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And now to disengage the clutch of the forebrain ...
I'm going with this - if you like artwork visit http://markfineart.ca
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