Maybe it might be best to pass on this specific lady model for now but use it as an opportunity to discuss and explore your boundaries?
From my perspective as a female, that would tell me that someone was absolutely more concerned with me being OK with it, and taking the time to flesh things out instead of honing in on that 1 person despite my discomfort.
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Calling from deep in the heart, from where the eyes can't see and the ears can't hear, from where the mountain trails end and only love can go... ~~~ Three Rivers Hare Krishna
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