Another "porn is bad" thread? Really? Of course porn is killing your libido. CNN is killing your attention span. Video games are killing your morals, too.
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First: John Mayer is an asshole and no person worth their salt should listen to anything that dipshit has to say.
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Originally Posted by Ruby Ryder
...general disgust...
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...way interesting coming from someone who is enthusiastically cheerleading fucking men in the ass with a strap-on. Mmm-hmm.
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Linda Williams wrote a great book (albeit now ancient) on this topic entitled "Hard Core: The Power, The Pleasure and the Frenzy of the Visible." The sections I find most interesting are the "rise of female power" as related to pornography. Women used to solely be the objects in said medium, now it seems as if there is a powerful yet subtle shift from object to the driver's seat. Women are very clearly in charge of sex today and porn will follow.
That and all the uppity fetish-now-common phase talk is silly. It's why I went on that goofy axillism (maschalagnia) fetish tangent a while back.
Don't like what society considers "hot" now? Just wait a few years. Ubiquitous acts like anal sex and facial ejaculation will be replaced with armpit sex.
And just like all trends (such as fashion), if you don't like it... don't do it. Your partner will decide if you're a fun enough fuck, right? Different strokes, yo.
It all comes back to taking control of your relationships and that old TFP staple: communication. If you don't want a finger in your ass, make it known.
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Regarding the OP:
I think our boy KirStang may just be burned out on too much gonzo porn. Like a junk food coma. Or maybe his partners aren't right for him as far as what he needs to get off. While I masturbate looking at porn just as much (if not moreso) than my peers (especially given my ridiculous job/living arrangements where I go for months at a time without seeing my partner or any woman), I'm always eager to smash my girl's guts regardless of how long ago it was that I last had it. Fantasy is fantasy, masturbation is a mindless quick release and real sex has never lost its gotta-have-it appeal. When you enjoy masturbation more than sex, you've got a problem. While I've been with girls that I was less excited to screw than others because they weren't as physically attractive (to me) or as "engaged" in bed, I still never had to conjure up some silicone-injected elasti-orifice bimbo to launch the old love pudding. Gotta stay in touch with reality: I'm probably never going to have a Ferrari either... and I'm aware that don't need one to be happy.
All good things in moderation, people.