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Originally Posted by The_Jazz
You feel the need to stop? Fine, here's how. Just stop. If it kills your sex drive, I promise that will only be temporary. It may be a week or a month or a few months, but it will come back.
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This is the only way to do it. The physical dependency lasts three days on average. Kicking a dependency sucks, but if you've ever had a bad cold you've felt worse. Wean yourself off with nicotine gum if you need to, try e-cigarettes (I can give you some brand recommendations if you want,) whatever you need to do.
As far as sex, you're clearly naturally dominant and growing up seeing smoking as a vice that was acceptable in your community got the two intertwined. If your sex drive disappears and you can't get it back, sign up for some place like kink.com and dig through the extreme stuff they have until you find something that suits you and is less likely to cause cancer. It's really really really unlikely that there is literally only one thing in the world that turns you on, you've just conditioned yourself to respond to one thing you really like and the rest has faded into the background.