Several tactics I've seen used:
- A fake wedding band when you're out and don't want to be hit on. Only works for women. Few times I wore a ring women were all up on me.
- Work an imaginary boyfriend into the conversation. You could suggest he's a bipolar ex con with a violent verb name.
- Straight-up honesty often works. Don't be timid. "I'm busy and I don't feel like talking right now. Sorry."
I'm a 55+ black male, so you might want to have some TFP ladies chime in for better answers.
Last edited by Plan9; 01-28-2011 at 04:52 PM..
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