TFP, you guys do not disappoint. Lots of things to think about reading this.
First, I have to comment on MSD - You're absolutely right, more than 45 minutes to get laid is too much, but I never even hinted that that was my purpose.
You guys are absolutely right though that we need to have a good talk and put all our cards out on the table. You've given me good ideas on the things we need to talk about, and I think we'll have to have this talk in the next few days when she returns from the trip (she's staying with family currently).
Steph, I know you've had bad experiences with long distance, but I don't think everything you said is really all that fair to me. I'm unemployed right now because I just finished my degree and I am looking for a job that will be better than the one I could return to. If I want to settle, I could have a job by the end of the week that would be paying just as well as hers (I'm expecting an offer that I'm pretty sure I'm going to get). Let's just say that with the job market now, I'm not worried about being able to provide. Also, 4 hours is a bitch, but it's not a plane flight over. I can see myself running down on a Friday night to stay the weekend.
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