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My advice? Don't do it. Just drop it where it is.
My reasons are as follows:
-Long distance relationships don't work without an expendable income, lots of spare time to visit each other, and patience/selflessness. Seeing as you're jobless, you have nothing to work with.
- She already said she's ready to have kids, and at 30, she's already pushing her viability. Two years from now, will be even worse. You're not settled or ready for kids, its a potential breaking point.
- People have to create an equilibrium between each other to live happily and with success. She's a nurse, she's established, you're the opposite, so either she has to be the breadwinner to support you, or you gotta work your ass off to get to an equilibrium. I just dont see it happening.
I'm basing this all off of experience, and off of relationships that affected groups of friendships. I've lost a lot of friends to this fucking shit, so its a sensitive subject.
Just...don't do it.
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