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Don't accept her being distant and her unwillingness to discuss this with you like an adult as being merely uncommunicative. Whether she intends to or not, she's telling you a great deal about what she feels you're worth, how she feels you deserve to be treated and how she values your relationship.
I've been where you are and while I think there's truth to that idea that you must be careful not to give too much (especially too soon) so as to maintain a level of mystery and facilitate desire, that stuff seems way too much like game playing and after a good long while of being with someone if you're still considering defensive moves like this as opposed to just being yourself then you're probably not compatible enough to be together anyway.
Kudos to you for sacking up and walking away. You'll be much better for it.
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"Porn is a zoo of exotic animals that becomes boring upon ownership." -Nersesian
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