I masturbate for two reasons. I sometimes think the primary reason is habit. I started in college before I had a relationship, and have just kept going ever since. At least daily for the most part.
Since I got married (first time living with my wife, different cities for two years before that), we've discovered that my libido is much higher than her's. I don't want to be a bother but I find the act of becoming erect and ejaculating to be fun. So I have fun by myself when she's not in the mood. Doesn't bother her, but I'm still getting used to it.
She masturbated when we lived apart, but she doesn't since we got married. I wouldn't mind if she did though. In fact, I'd like it.
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