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At the risk of sounding unsympathetic; You need to take your pants back.
Knowing only what I've read here, when she met you, you were a mystery and exciting. Now you're predictable and boring. Until a women really gets to know you and falls in love with you, she needs that mystery and excitement to remain interested long enough to become enamored with you. Otherwise you're just another guy and that's not what dating women are looking for, they can have that anywhere. They want "the one", their "white knight", whatever their image of the perfect male is. Not a really nice predictable guy. They need to know you can handle your own life.
So suck it up, take your pants back and quit being such a puppy for a while. I'm not saying turn into a raging asshole or anything like that, I'm just saying put your interests first so she has something to compete with. Do what you want to do and post updates where she'll see them, but don't make any direct contact with her, let her contact you. Let her know, through your actions, that if she wants to be part of your life, she needs to step up.
If she's truly interested, she will step up. IF not, you never had a chance to begin with and she was just using you until she found something better. Either way, you're better off.
Once she changes her mind from dating to marrying, then the game changes, nice and predictable is what she'll want.
I'll probably get flamed for this, but it's true. It's our primal nature.
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