Originally Posted by levite

Doesn't mean I want my wife less. I love having sex with her. But for me, it's an apples-and-oranges experience. Sex is about being with my wife, sharing ourselves with each other, being in the same moment and headspace together, feeling good together, being there for one another. Masturbation is about me: fantasizing, making myself feel good, just for shits and giggles. There's a good reason, IMO, that it's called playing with yourself.