My husband and I masturbate together and apart. Sometimes I'm horny and he's not, and vice-versa, or we just have an itch that needs to be scratched. I don't feel like having sex when I'm gassy and neither does he, so those are generally days we skip the sex and go for masturbation. Both of us masturbate with a fair amount of frequency, independent of how much sex we're having. We're just sexy, horny people