I knew this friend since we were 16 and her mother was pretty strict. So this girl smoked in secret from her mother, she often told her mother she is going out with me, when she infact was going out with some other group of friends her mother wouldn't have approved. I didn't know, she lied to her mother, until one Saturday morning her mother called to me, and said my friend should come home sooner, but we hadn't been together the night before.
This friend mostly used me as a companion just to get drunk and meet guys, when her other friends weren't able to accompany her. When she was actively dating someone, I wouldn't hear that much from her, but couple of times it happened that she invited me with them and there would also be a friend of his current boyfriend, who obviously thought there was some kind of attempt to hook us up, while I was unaware of these plans and didn't even know about this extra company in advance. Sometimes I encountered even hostility from these guys, because they thought we had a "deal"...
Within couple of years this happened 3-4 times and her last stunt was enough to end the friendship.
I was quite offended by her "picking" guys for me like this and lying about stuff, my idea was rather be alone than date someone I didn't like to begin with. She would also hide information, if she knew I had some guy in my mind, but she had seen this guy with someone else, since we didn't always go out together in same places. She just needed me to come with her for her own benifit, so she wouldn't want to take risk of me staying home instead.
Those were the times and my social circles then, but I still kind of shiver, when people around me start talking about other people's affairs or they want me to take part in their plans of getting more involved with someone. Noo, thanks, get your own fingers burnt in matchmaking...