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Should I take a different kind of attitude and help people to unite and be happy for them instead of being skeptical, rather?
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There's no real downside as long as you know when to give up. It's only awkward if you keep trying when one party is definitely not interested. Personally I've been the beneficiary of matchmaking met a nice girl so I am glad that person took the time to try.
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Originally Posted by amonkie
so most of the time I'm trying to fend off the matches, not set them up.
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Why fend them off? I can't think of a better situation as long as the matches are reasonable.