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BlondZilla · 01-07-2011, 10:26 AM

LOL I was married 11 years in a horrid marriage but after ditching him I met the most amazing man who is my sexual equal.
We do a lot of experimenting. That is the key.
We have found-this Swedish company -Lelo-makes high quality sex toys, or uh personal objects. The Gigi will make you spill. I think its 109 there but half that on Amazon. Don't forget the lube. Take some time. In and out-pee first-relax all muscles. Literally do not twitch one muscle. It is real close to the sensation of peeing. When I feel it don't tense, and exhale, and just sink into it.You can get there under five minutes. All muscles relaxed and just sink.
Works everytime. I don't squirt-I don't know how-we are working on that-its supposed to be squeezing the outter muscles but at this point I can't tell them apart LOL I think my muscles are so strong-I orgasm often-that they just override the shooting part? But a forceful in and out gets it to go further.
But I do spill. And spill and spill. There is so much I have to go running after it before it gets to the door jam.
I would suggest if someone can't stop it, perhaps you need to work on your muscles. When your muscles are tense there is no way to spill, and inhale instead of exhale when you r ready to blow.
There are several kinds of orgasms. I wouldn't say I am orgasming when I spill. It is just such a relief. Those days when you are so horny and nothing quells it-well spilling does. I wish I had found it sooner. I may have been more successful and not chased boys so. Now I keep a Gigi in the bathroom incase I am busy and need to relieve myself so I can get on with my day. (I know crazy right? but it beats the hell out of going around wondering what everyone is like under their clothes)
For G spot orgasm (aside from him) we use the Mona-its a toy from Lelo too. More of a filling feeling and less concentration on the Gspot.
BEnding that thing all over the place and in and out. Soooo good. 6 speeds and I love them all. You know the G spot isnt this little button inside. It is a series of nerves. Sometimes I cant feel them at all. If you put your finger right inside and squeeze the first poof of flesh to your public bone, hard, you can always feel them. Yup that intensity-that is them. As you fill with fluid and become aroused the spot grows. Mine can go deep or stay shallow. I can call it from the outside just gentle pushes sporadically. Or sometimes barely touching the very outside calls it and sends me leaking all over.
For clitoral stimulation (aside from him) we use the Hitachi Magic Wand. Careful when buying this thing you will put it in your will. I swear to God you can leave your jeans on with this thing. With that and the Mona holy hell.
But yea-ladies get some good gear-experiment often. Remember you don't use muscles- and your girl goodies are muscles-they will not be strong and healthy.
Oh and beware, once you learn how to call gspot response and orgasms yourself-there really is no going back.
It is lots of fun learning. Everyone can do it. You need only be aroused. If you have trouble getting aroused watch some filthy porn before he gets home.
Sex is supposed to be fun. Have an adventure with some one or alone.

01-07-2011, 10:26 AM	#14 (permalink)
BlondZilla Upright	Experiment Experiment Experiment LOL I was married 11 years in a horrid marriage but after ditching him I met the most amazing man who is my sexual equal. We do a lot of experimenting. That is the key. We have found-this Swedish company -Lelo-makes high quality sex toys, or uh personal objects. The Gigi will make you spill. I think its 109 there but half that on Amazon. Don't forget the lube. Take some time. In and out-pee first-relax all muscles. Literally do not twitch one muscle. It is real close to the sensation of peeing. When I feel it don't tense, and exhale, and just sink into it.You can get there under five minutes. All muscles relaxed and just sink. Works everytime. I don't squirt-I don't know how-we are working on that-its supposed to be squeezing the outter muscles but at this point I can't tell them apart LOL I think my muscles are so strong-I orgasm often-that they just override the shooting part? But a forceful in and out gets it to go further. But I do spill. And spill and spill. There is so much I have to go running after it before it gets to the door jam. I would suggest if someone can't stop it, perhaps you need to work on your muscles. When your muscles are tense there is no way to spill, and inhale instead of exhale when you r ready to blow. There are several kinds of orgasms. I wouldn't say I am orgasming when I spill. It is just such a relief. Those days when you are so horny and nothing quells it-well spilling does. I wish I had found it sooner. I may have been more successful and not chased boys so. Now I keep a Gigi in the bathroom incase I am busy and need to relieve myself so I can get on with my day. (I know crazy right? but it beats the hell out of going around wondering what everyone is like under their clothes) For G spot orgasm (aside from him) we use the Mona-its a toy from Lelo too. More of a filling feeling and less concentration on the Gspot. BEnding that thing all over the place and in and out. Soooo good. 6 speeds and I love them all. You know the G spot isnt this little button inside. It is a series of nerves. Sometimes I cant feel them at all. If you put your finger right inside and squeeze the first poof of flesh to your public bone, hard, you can always feel them. Yup that intensity-that is them. As you fill with fluid and become aroused the spot grows. Mine can go deep or stay shallow. I can call it from the outside just gentle pushes sporadically. Or sometimes barely touching the very outside calls it and sends me leaking all over. For clitoral stimulation (aside from him) we use the Hitachi Magic Wand. Careful when buying this thing you will put it in your will. I swear to God you can leave your jeans on with this thing. With that and the Mona holy hell. But yea-ladies get some good gear-experiment often. Remember you don't use muscles- and your girl goodies are muscles-they will not be strong and healthy. Oh and beware, once you learn how to call gspot response and orgasms yourself-there really is no going back. It is lots of fun learning. Everyone can do it. You need only be aroused. If you have trouble getting aroused watch some filthy porn before he gets home. Sex is supposed to be fun. Have an adventure with some one or alone.