Shyla Loral

OMG the first time this happened to me, I thought I was peeing. But I learned it's female ejaculate, and it is *amazing*. I almost pass out! Does anyone else do this on a regular/semiregular basis? What's your favorite lube? We like astroglide.

yoshi

It's never happened to me and I wish it would. I don't know if it just happens or if it can with anyone. I'd love your imput Shyla Loral

SiN

i started a thread about it once upon a time, there's some good info innit.

(search button is your friend )

http://tfproject.org/tfp/showthread....ht=ejaculation

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awanderingsoul

Congrats Shyla! I've yet to experience it, but I'm working on it!

Apache

Well I have to say that it happens to me almost everytime my husband and I do it!!!!!!! Lucky me I guess but I have to keep a blanket folded beside my bed (I have silk sheets and a silk comforter) to lay on because I know if I go I'm going all over the place. I mean I'm talkin about it lookin like someone threw a bucked of water all over the bed after I'm done. In the past it has only happened to me when I'm on top, so if Im in another position when I go it doesn't usually make such a mess, however the other night I actually made a mess while on bottom! It doesn't really feel like Im peeing it just comes all by itself but afterwards my husband better be done too or almost there because I really do have to pee after that!

As far as lub, I am naturally lubricated so we don't have to use anything. But as for anal we have used the astroglide and I agree it works well!

Shyla Loral

There are some absorbent underpads that are sold at most drugstores, in the adult diaper isle. You spread them out underneath you, and believe me, I have never filled one up too much, and my hubby can make me go like 10-20 times, until I pass out.http://www.fetishclub.com/exchange/f...culation.shtml That's a really good link to see how to do it, it's amazing. Oops, I have to go :P

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daydream

It happens to me quite often but only from oral sex... does anyone else experience that... is there a way for it to happen during actual intercourse?

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cherylcannady

Mr. S and I experiment with vaginal fisting once in a while. Takes a lot of patience, a lot of lube (usually ky or astroglide type stuff), and latex gloves. Last time we tried, we particulary aimed for me to ejaculate, just to see if I could do it.

I actually started shaking all over. My teeth were even chattering. Then I started crying really hard from the emotional release, and then it happened. My whole body felt hot and cold all at the same time. Absolutely amazing. I almost did pass out from it. I didn't ejaculate a whole bunch, but there definitely was a bunch.

During regular sex, I'm usually quite lubricated naturally. I can get kind of sloppy sometimes. Kind of funny. I make more of a "Wet Spot" than he does.

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Shyla Loral

I highly recommend having an enema before trying it, or you'll get an unexpected/unwanted surprise! I do have it happen occasionally during intercourse, but I have to be *certain* that my ass is clear, or I'm just too uncomfortable to try. Having it happen during intercourse, though, is particularly powerful.

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Lala124

I just recently discovered that I am in fact a "squirter", and it happens every single time. My boyfriend says he doesn't mind the mess I make and he actually finds it kind of attractive. I however, do not share his sentiment, no matter how good it feels, I hate it. I find it messy and overall inconvenient. Does anyone know if there is any way to treat it or prevent it other than not having an orgasm?

lovely25

If you want to "treat" it, I suppose it would be just the same process for those who want to learn it. You can learn techniques to control what your body does in regards to squirting. You can trigger it or keep it from happening I would imagine.

LaLa1

I feel the same way. Happens every time, and it does feel good but I'm sick of the mess and inconvenience of it. Breaking the mood to stop and say "wait lets get some towels" sucks most of the time. Funny that we are in agreement and also have almost the same screen name

BlondZilla

LOL I was married 11 years in a horrid marriage but after ditching him I met the most amazing man who is my sexual equal.
We do a lot of experimenting. That is the key.
We have found-this Swedish company -Lelo-makes high quality sex toys, or uh personal objects. The Gigi will make you spill. I think its 109 there but half that on Amazon. Don't forget the lube. Take some time. In and out-pee first-relax all muscles. Literally do not twitch one muscle. It is real close to the sensation of peeing. When I feel it don't tense, and exhale, and just sink into it.You can get there under five minutes. All muscles relaxed and just sink.
Works everytime. I don't squirt-I don't know how-we are working on that-its supposed to be squeezing the outter muscles but at this point I can't tell them apart LOL I think my muscles are so strong-I orgasm often-that they just override the shooting part? But a forceful in and out gets it to go further.
But I do spill. And spill and spill. There is so much I have to go running after it before it gets to the door jam.
I would suggest if someone can't stop it, perhaps you need to work on your muscles. When your muscles are tense there is no way to spill, and inhale instead of exhale when you r ready to blow.
There are several kinds of orgasms. I wouldn't say I am orgasming when I spill. It is just such a relief. Those days when you are so horny and nothing quells it-well spilling does. I wish I had found it sooner. I may have been more successful and not chased boys so. Now I keep a Gigi in the bathroom incase I am busy and need to relieve myself so I can get on with my day. (I know crazy right? but it beats the hell out of going around wondering what everyone is like under their clothes)
For G spot orgasm (aside from him) we use the Mona-its a toy from Lelo too. More of a filling feeling and less concentration on the Gspot.
BEnding that thing all over the place and in and out. Soooo good. 6 speeds and I love them all. You know the G spot isnt this little button inside. It is a series of nerves. Sometimes I cant feel them at all. If you put your finger right inside and squeeze the first poof of flesh to your public bone, hard, you can always feel them. Yup that intensity-that is them. As you fill with fluid and become aroused the spot grows. Mine can go deep or stay shallow. I can call it from the outside just gentle pushes sporadically. Or sometimes barely touching the very outside calls it and sends me leaking all over.
For clitoral stimulation (aside from him) we use the Hitachi Magic Wand. Careful when buying this thing you will put it in your will. I swear to God you can leave your jeans on with this thing. With that and the Mona holy hell.
But yea-ladies get some good gear-experiment often. Remember you don't use muscles- and your girl goodies are muscles-they will not be strong and healthy.
Oh and beware, once you learn how to call gspot response and orgasms yourself-there really is no going back.
It is lots of fun learning. Everyone can do it. You need only be aroused. If you have trouble getting aroused watch some filthy porn before he gets home.
Sex is supposed to be fun. Have an adventure with some one or alone.

jadangel

My orgasms feel no different squirting or not squirting so I usually try to hold the fluid in. I just contract the muscles when I start to feel it coming out. My bf doesn't seem to mind either way, but we both hate having to get up in the middle of post coitial bliss to change the sheets on the bed. We would much rather fall asleep....

HerrDoktor

System JO's stuff is the best lube ever. I wouldn't recommend KY because it used to be for medical instruments, and it sort of make me leary. JO H2O can be used on anything, it's silicone and latex safe. And even sort of makes your hair pretty and friz free, lol.

I'm pretty jealous of hearing all these stories about squirting. I don't know if I can do it, figure I ought to get a plastic tarp for the bed first. My boyfriend is interested in it, though, so we might try it at some point.

ellie

I've read loads on squirting and this post is probably the best I've read in regards to how to do it and what to expect. I couldn't have worded it any better myself I don't think!

I was with one boyfriend who taught me exactly how to squirt and such. I haven't done it with anyone since. We're currently best friends to this day (broke up in 2001,) so I guess it's kind of like our little secret or something lol. Nah, I'm sure I could talk with my current bf and we could experiment with that sort of thing again, but as I've mentioned in another thread, I have some other problems with sex that need to be tackled before we start something like this.

As far as good lubes are concerned, Astroglide is good. The traditional KY gets too tacky imo. But recently, we've delved into the world of silicone based lubes. I LOVE them. Very slick, soft and slippery. Zero tackiness. They just feel so good on your fingers alone. And there are so many kinds to try. One we're happy with is Wet Platinum. I highly recommend trying these out.

And regarding the messiness of it all, the ex and I had a sort of habit much like brushing teeth before you go to bed lol. Before going to dinner, we'd lay out one of those inexpensive shower liners on the bed and cover it with a soft bed sheet or blanket. Then we'd go on our 'date.' When the time came to hit the bedroom, all was ready for our romp. Those puppy pad-type thingys mentioned earlier just wouldn't be big enough for the positions we got into. Aaaaand weellll... he kind of enjoyed watersports. So we needed a lot of room. Once we finished, we'd just fold up the sheet / blanket and shower curtain and leave it on the floor for the wash machine the next day. And all bed linens remained clean and dry for bedtime.

Good luck to all

bees1

[/COLOR]I, too, can agree with you on not wanting to "stop and get towels"...so a friend of mine told me about a new product that I have been using with my bf for the last month and it's worked out pretty well. It's called Swipes Lovin Wipes. I got the cucumber scented ones, they smell really good and the greatest thing about them, is that they are a flushable wipe! So I don't have to worry about cleaning up the towels or throwing tissue away in the trash can. I just keep them in the night stand right next to the condoms

wondergirl

I experience ejaculation every time (sometimes multiple) my boyfriend and I have sex or fool around. I fully enjoy it, but every once in a while something will exit the "backdoor" involuntarily. I don't know why or how to control it, but sometimes I find myself withholding because of the fear that something will come out. Has anybody else had this problem? Or does anybody maybe know why this would happen?

Deliteful

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 years. I only started squirting seriously within the last year. His specialty is making girls squirt and its kinda an obsession for him. It takes, relaxation, g-spot stimulation, and willingness, but it's also true that not every woman will squirt. He dated a girl who was a very prolific squirter and another who was highly multi-orgasmic but never squirted. He had tried every trick in the book and I just didn't squirt, but I also didn't orgasm often either. We almost resigned to the fact that I would never do it.....until I tried x. I notice it's uncontrollable when we have sex after taking xstasy. Yea i know-drugs are bad. Whatever, I'm grown! Lol. Anyway about 2 months we took some x and I was on top riding him and it started. How do I know it wasn't pee??? I reached down there and tasted it. It had no smell and tasted slightly sweet. After that it was like someone just left the faucet running.....it just wouldnt stop. I can squirt normally also but it's not everytime like when we're rolling. I find that doggy style and cowgirl are really good for it. But for me, reverse cowgirl really gets it going for me. Mine doesn't "squirt" out though, they're more like big gushes. Entire bed is soaked through, lol. Its fun and gratifying. I'm not yet at the point where I can do it from clit play alone. And I should probably mention that he was also semi fisting me before sex which also may have helped me squirt that night.

odietamo

I don't think I can actually orgasm, I know that sounds ridiculous but its as though I stop myself before the big finale! Heres hoping I get to experience what you have been discussing x