Take a step back. I read your questions, I read the responses, and there's a much more pressing issue than air in your vagina.
You are married to ...
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Originally Posted by Calypso15
His weight frustrates me to no end. However he has no intention of making changes.
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With the weight gain also brought the sex decline. For quiet sometime he couldn't have an erection. Lots of patience on my behalf and resentment building up over the years. The more I wanted to have sex the less he did. He told me that marriages aren't just about the sex.
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a fat, stubborn, selfish, asshole ...
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P.S. He's always trying to fatten me up.
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... who is trying to convince you to make lifestyle choices that significantly increase your chance of serious health issues or death for one or more of the following reasons
-to fit the aesthetic he finds pleasing
-to make him feel better about himself in comparison
-to make you less attractive to other men so there's less chance that you'll leave him for someone else
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I fake the my enthusiasm.
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and you are not only accommodating him, you're compromising your own enjoyment for the sake of his.
This is not a healthy relationship. Not only are you not satisfied, you are unhappy in large part because you are being emotionally abused by a fat, stubborn, selfish asshole who doesn't even pretend to give a shit about how you feel. He needs professional mental and physical help and you need to get him out of your life.
The most you should be giving him is an ultimatum that if he doesn't try to make his own life better and treat you as an equal in your relationship, you're going to divorce his ass and find someone you can enjoy life with while he wallows in his misery until one day he has a heart attack and the paramedics have to wait for the fire department to cut open a wall because he can't fit through the door. But that shouldn't be your problem, and in the unlikely case that he does get his life back on track and manages to become the person you fell in love with, you can always try again and sell the movie rights to Lifetime.