Thread: I hate sex.
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Old 01-03-2011, 06:10 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by ellie View Post
He informed me that this is going to be a long and tedious process since I'm so drugged up. But I can't wait like this - not with the way things are.
Long and tedious: doctor's words? Why can't you wait if you've already waited this long? And if your boyfriend's been patient and understanding, why are you rushing things?

While I understand wanting to make him happy, if he cares for you he won't want you to make that sort of sacrifice for him. If you're that concerned, your mouth will lubricate easily and I'm sure he'll be fine with that for now. Also, focus on getting him all worked up might help those juices start to flow.

If the med combo is as debilitating as you describe, readjust your self-expectations. Take the pressure off yourself so that as the weaning process begins, you'll be open to feeling the change and things will slowly go back to normal.

I'd found myself in a similar crises when I was married and found my appetite returning once the weaning process began. The same will happen for you.
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