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Originally Posted by genuinegirly
First rule to a good sex life: don't fake it. By making it look like you're having a good time when this happens, you're encouraging him to do it. Sometimes men get off on their partners having a good time. This would explain why he "doesn't notice" that you're blowing up like a balloon. You should let him know next time, "let's try it a little different" or "I think it might be more pleasurable for me if you..." find a way to let him know tactfully, assuming you don't want to tell him you've been faking your pleasure.
It doesn't happen when you're riding him because you're in control. You know what makes you go wild. You should find a way to let him know, too.
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You're absolutely right. I don't tell him anything because he will loose his erection. He has difficulty getting one and sometimes maintaining it. He has a low libido and couple that with high blood pressure and obesity I don't want to further add to his problems. I should clarify...I don't fake orgasms. I fake the my enthusiasm. I'm worried about the air issue and his ability to maintain an erection that it's hard to be fully involved. When I am on top I am in control so the air issue isn't a problem. I miss the days when missionary was easy for him. It takes a lot out of both of us but he does not care to lose weight.