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First rule to a good sex life: don't fake it. By making it look like you're having a good time when this happens, you're encouraging him to do it. Sometimes men get off on their partners having a good time. This would explain why he "doesn't notice" that you're blowing up like a balloon. You should let him know next time, "let's try it a little different" or "I think it might be more pleasurable for me if you..." find a way to let him know tactfully, assuming you don't want to tell him you've been faking your pleasure.
It doesn't happen when you're riding him because you're in control. You know what makes you go wild. You should find a way to let him know, too.
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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