wifelover

Hey,
My wife and I are in very similar situation. Although we have 3 kids, after the first one, my wife started having pain with sex. However, it got better after like 9 months. Than with our second kid, she once again had pain during sex. This time we did not have penatrative sex for almost 2 years. After that, once again she was fine and we got our third kid. Now once again same thing. Doctor checked and could not find anything wrong with her physically. However, she is extremely tight and her vagina tightens up unvoluntariy. Doctor said it's Vaginimus. There is a very good website : vaginismus.com. They have a very good self therapy kit which is extremely successful. Please read material on that website and encourge her to read as well. Order the kit and you would not be disaappointed. Unfortunately, several doctors just tell women to just use more lube, foreplay, relax, or drink some wine. As a result, women suffer for years. If you read some of the stories of the women on that site, you will see that women have been suffering for over 10 years. They finally discovered the site and got over vaginimus through patience and self therapy(involves, kegal, vaginal dialators, some introspective look into past).

Good luck to you both