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Originally Posted by Plan9
No ring until you get the ding-ding. Gotta test drive her, ya know?
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I'll agree all the way.... kicking myself for even have to think about such a thing. I really want to post an ultimatum of this to her but applying to much pressure wouldn't exactly be smart. however it might get to that point if this doesn't get fixed...
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Originally Posted by The_Jazz
Mr OP: there are jackholes who aren't bothering to read what you've written abound in this thread just like there is some good advice. Take that as fair warning.
I've been in your position. First and foremost, there's no point in marrying this girl if sex is out of the question. If you're both willing but unable, what's it going to be like in 5 years? 10? 20?
If she doesn't "open up" after orgasm, then that tells me that there's a medical issue. And that's where I have some experience. Back in my dating days, I had a girlfriend who was medically unable to have sex. It's rare, but it's possible. We tried for months and ended up as frustrated as you. It wasn't a simple question of nerves or unwillingness. It's been 15 years+, but I think that the doctor told her to try masturbating with an object by herself fairly regularly. However, in the end, she ended up with a surgical fix. We did end up having sex, but it was never very comfortable for either of us. Honestly, we ended up experimenting with anal and had much better results there.
And 66mustang, how about not answering the question in the most offensive way possible? Have a least a little pride in your posts.
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I'm dreading the idea of medical treatment being required. She currently doesn't have insurance and this diagnosis could easily give her the ammo to force me into another year of no vaginal intercourse. What was the surgical fix? What all did they do to her...? and mmm.... anal, not a bad idea...
I take all comments positively. no worries there
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Snowy seems to have dropped the most logical answer.
No, really, she's probably just nervous. Had a girlfriend like that once. There was NO way you were getting a swizzle stick in there, forget a raging Plan2andaHalfer. It was the funniest thing. She asked me to go downtown and investigate and it literally looked like her reproductive pocket was puckered like a bank vault. While hitting up a GP doctor is a gimme for most medical situations mentioned on TFP, I'd recommend a little more in-bed therapy as well: just focus on parts of her anatomy other than that, chew on her neck a little, keep her busy with pillow talk and slide-right-inOHYEAH. After the initial problem, it was smooth sailing after that. So smooth, in fact, that we achieved an orgasm record that hasn't been bested since.
Make sure your partner does some research on vaginismus, bro.
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I'll be sending that link over again soon for sure.. I've investigated her reproductive pocket quite a few times... it definitively feels like the muscles that are tight in the front... it kinda feels like sticking your fingers into a hole in the wall... tight opening.. wiiiiiiiiide open beyond the wall. the tightness goes for like the first half inch i think? so that would make it the muscles over something like an overly strong hymn...
bangs head on wall... bangs head on wall... bangs head on wall...