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Mr OP: there are jackholes who aren't bothering to read what you've written abound in this thread just like there is some good advice. Take that as fair warning.
I've been in your position. First and foremost, there's no point in marrying this girl if sex is out of the question. If you're both willing but unable, what's it going to be like in 5 years? 10? 20?
If she doesn't "open up" after orgasm, then that tells me that there's a medical issue. And that's where I have some experience. Back in my dating days, I had a girlfriend who was medically unable to have sex. It's rare, but it's possible. We tried for months and ended up as frustrated as you. It wasn't a simple question of nerves or unwillingness. It's been 15 years+, but I think that the doctor told her to try masturbating with an object by herself fairly regularly. However, in the end, she ended up with a surgical fix. We did end up having sex, but it was never very comfortable for either of us. Honestly, we ended up experimenting with anal and had much better results there.
And 66mustang, how about not answering the question in the most offensive way possible? Have a least a little pride in your posts.
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