Your experiences will shape you, but they are not a death knell for who you will become.
Had a GF cheat on me with our boss. Wanted to hurt a lot of people, really badly. So I put a lot of space and time in between us. A couple of years later, I have come out ahead, and better, without her.
It's trite, but time heals all wounds. In times like these, you will need good friends and family to back you up. Seek out your support network and just hang out, or, pursue those hobbies you have been putting off.
Good luck.
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