I understand that a lot of women aren't comfortable with a lot of Lingerie. Either it's just not comfortable or it's not them. I know men don't like "wrapping paper," but this isn't about the men. This is what I feel sexy in. I like getting dressed up and I like lingerie. I like the way it feels.
I suppose I wasn't clear on why I want the lingerie. It's really just for me. I'm not looking to have it as part of foreplay. I'm not really looking to have sex at all. I just don't feel like I used to when I dressed up as more and wore sexier undergarments.
You can tell me it's a state of mind and it's not about the clothes. Yes and no. I'm not looking to wear the lingerie to put me in a better mind frame. Not being in the mind frame is what is preventing me from wearing the clothes I love. I miss my style and how it made me feel.
I'm glad that starkizzer responded because I know she likes lingerie. It seems as if smrt does too. She looks sexy and confident in it too. (I have such a crush on her
) I was looking for like minded people to give me advice on what they wear and what designers they recommend. I'm going to look into Hips and Curves to see if I can find what I want.
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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
what I've gotten more into lately than lingerie is shooz.
I can put on a sexy pair of shoes and nothing else and feel mighty fine.
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I agree. I love shoes. I haven't worn my hot stilletos because I haven't felt like I have my balance back.
I have some great shoes.