Well, there is always the "sex as drug = habitual indulgence = lack of control" to fall back on. Sort of an "It's not me, it's the sexual drive innate in every male" kind of thing.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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