I can't seem to get a grip on what he thinks is so special about his sexual needs. It's as if he thinks all people in committed relationships have sex on beds of rose petals with long, slow, lingering kisses that are followed by looking each other deeply in the eyes and professing an undying love. It ain't like that. Not in my relationship, anyway. And not in most of the relationships on this board, I imagine. I mean, sometimes it's nice. But sex is not about romance for many, maybe even most, people. It's hot. It's dirty. It's rutting. fucking. forced blowjobs. anal sex. bondage. spankings. mutual masturbation. pegging. toe sucking. threesomes. prostate massage with long, slow, teasing handjobs...
What is it exactly that you believe married or committed couples can't do? You seem to have a really limited understanding of what married sex is all about.
And for that matter, how much sex have you had, anyway? I feel there is sooo much unsaid with you. Part of me is beginning to think you are totally full of shit and all of this is just a fantasy life in your head. Prove me wrong.
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