Thread: sex as a drug
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Old 12-19-2010, 01:13 AM   #2 (permalink)
Starkizzer
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I am married. I am a hopeless romantic.

That being stated, I also engage in sexual activities outside of the "norm". I peg my husband. We enjoy MMF threesome on a consistent basis. I believe in polyamory and I believe kink has a place in the world. I am an exhibitionist, a committed lover and a loving spouse. I am also kinky, on the milder side of the kink spectrum perhaps. But I fall into both of your categories. I think you need to see that there is no fine line when it comes to sex and the way people view it.

Yes, it is good to incorporate sex into my relationship as it makes me feel closer and more intimate with my husband. However, we also enjoy the thrill of sex. You yourself say it helps you understand your emotions, thus you too are using sex as a tool and not as an end. You are just using this tool in a different way.

That all being said, what are you wanting to discuss here? What do we get out of sex? Why we have sex? What kinky stuff have we tried?
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