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Originally Posted by snowy
As seen in this thread: http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...-big-dick.html the discussion started turning to another question entirely...
Who is more obsessed with breast size? Men or women?
Do women want larger breasts to please themselves, men, or other women? Are men obsessed with breast size because they desire larger breasts on women?
I am sure there are other questions that will pop up as we explore this issue.
Personally, I'm fine with my breasts. I went through torture as an adolescent because I was the first girl in my school to really get them. I've never wanted larger breasts. I think the reasons as to why other women may want larger breasts are complicated; because I can't relate to them, it's difficult for me to speculate, but I think part of it--especially in adult women--is motivated by outside observations of other women. I think we just lay the blame on men--"oh, I wanted guys to notice me, so I got implants." I call BS: most guys I know don't mind implants in porn, but in real life is different. In my own life, the observations of other women were what made having breasts so young difficult. It gets really old to be asked for a tissue by the same two girls every day in 7th grade.
So what's your take on it? |
I think guys were much more obsessed about breast size last generation. I think, since more and more women got implants, more and more guys are beginning to understand that quality is better than quantity.
I know for me, I would always, always rather see/touch really nice natural breasts than odd-looking/feeling fake breasts. That goes for porn and real life. Fake boobs are not sexy.
Look, do men like big boobs? Sure, of course we do. Does that mean we don't like the smaller ones, too? Not at all.
For me, at least, it's always been about proportion and shape. I basically have two female types that attract me most. The first is curvy, voluptuous, with big boobs, junk in the trunk, and good, load-bearing hips, like a medieval serving wench. The second is slim, willowy, with long, long legs and small, very firm breasts, like a ballet dancer (this type is rare, mostly because even most ballet dancers don't naturally have the bodies of ballet dancers, and have forced slightly less willowy bodies to be thinner than they're supposed to be)-- she should be naturally built slim, not starved and looking like she'd be hot if you took her someplace and fed her sandwiches for a month.
One of those two types comes with big, bouncy D-cups (or above). One of those two types comes with A-cups. Both are
awesome. And the fact that those are my usual types doesn't mean I don't look and appreciate (or have, in the past, felt and appreciated) women with other body types, with B-cup or C-cup size boobs, in all different shapes and sizes.
Dudes like boobs. But dudes like chicks is really the more accurate statement.
I think that the whole big fake boob thing is being perpetuated a lot by the mainstream porn industry, which doesn't really market to most normal guys, but to the lowest common denominator among guys, which is the Bobby Joe McSleazy Workin' At The Plant Drinkin' Beer Watchin' NASCAR type that will snicker about boob size endlessly because he never really left sixth grade, and will nonetheless put his dick into anyone or anything, no matter what or who's attached to the hole. Personally, I think that's why the internet's such a blessing: dudes find what they like. And so do chicks.
Frankly, I think women are getting much more screwed by the fashion industry, which just doesn't seem to understand how not to try and make women into anorexics and bulimics.