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i haven't posted the last couple of days due to the fact of following shadow's advice of trying to make sure my daughter knew every option that she had. which included that she could do adoption after birth. which, btw, blew up in my face. that sent her fuming and hadn't spoke to me in over a day from that option. i'm going to refrain of what i'd really like to say about that piece of advice.
sometimes some options might be best left unsaid as that they would severely upset someone. apparently instead of listening to my own thoughts of not saying that one, i made a mistake and upset her even more.
however, i won't be posting for a bit due to new light of incidents that happened today. we are now talking and trying to support EACH other now. we had the shocking news of her father passing away today. it was very sudden and coping factor has been upped to extreme levels for both of us. her father and i may have not gotten along 100% but we always remained what was needed as parents and amiable to each other.
this has hit me rather harder than i thought that it would, i think it has to do with the future grandchild and this would be his and mine first. and now my daughter will be dwelling alot on that he won't be here to see his first.
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Quantum Cat Theory:
Upon hearing the sound of a can being opened,
it becomes possible for a cat to travel faster than the speed of light.
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