Mini-update: I made a fairly big push to talk more during lunch and during other social times. It worked out pretty well, but I think there was some resistance from my coworkers, like "why is the quiet intern talking more all of a sudden". I think if I keep things up things will get better. Will post more updates as they come, thanks everyone.
Also, I'm days away from paying off all of my debt and will be making my first donation to TFP, after being a member for 5 years
(sorry I have to too my horn a little)