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Hmm some good advice, I am happy to compromise, I'm not some macho keep my wife indoors type who want's it all my own way, I just want a compromise.
I've talked to my wife until there is not much talking anymore, I use the 'C' word a lot, I just say come home maybe three nights straight from school and go to hers on two nights. She agrees, but the crazy sister engineers all kinds of reasons to get her there and then keeps her there by say having the latest game or dvd which she puts on for my daughter which makes it mean for my wife to break off.
My wife is torn, she feels sorry for the lonely sister, who hasn't got a partner(she can't keep one) hasn't got any kids (she aborted hers-cruel but true).
This woman has lost her well paid job through crazy issues, so now she has more time over to mess up my life grrrr!
So no point in discussing it much more with my wife, we've done that and nothing changes.
As I see it my choices are:
Grin and bear it.
Join in the party... turn up at her house whenever my family are there, drink her drink and eat her food. Kick of my shoes, chill out, outstay my welcome.
Do something selfish for myself, go to bars, womanise, maybe do more hobbies.
Make some declaration, in writing, hand it to all parties involved.
Leave and start another life.
I'm pretty beat up about all this, I'm not a selfish person, but the years are flying by and I'm missing out on my family.
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