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Suzz04 · 12-09-2010, 06:40 PM

I'm not asking everyone to agree with me. I asked for their experiences.

To quote myself to you , Shadowex3, I did say
If it becomes too much for her mentally, given her age, I will step in and adoption will most likely be our next step.

She does know the option of adoption. But I'm not giving her that option unless she has at least tried. How can she know that she's going to be able to do it if she doesn't even try?

Being pregnant is a responsibility. Not a thing that can be solved by just handing the problem over to someone else to deal with. That's what it sounds to me. Let someone else deal with a problem that a 15 year old has.

What if she has another child and she's over 18? Do we give her those same options to give up this child like the first? Let her refuse to take responsibility for her actions?

12-09-2010, 06:40 PM	#19 (permalink)
Suzz04 Crazy Location: Virginia	I'm not asking everyone to agree with me. I asked for their experiences. To quote myself to you , Shadowex3, I did say If it becomes too much for her mentally, given her age, I will step in and adoption will most likely be our next step. She does know the option of adoption. But I'm not giving her that option unless she has at least tried. How can she know that she's going to be able to do it if she doesn't even try? Being pregnant is a responsibility. Not a thing that can be solved by just handing the problem over to someone else to deal with. That's what it sounds to me. Let someone else deal with a problem that a 15 year old has. What if she has another child and she's over 18? Do we give her those same options to give up this child like the first? Let her refuse to take responsibility for her actions? __________________ Quantum Cat Theory: Upon hearing the sound of a can being opened, it becomes possible for a cat to travel faster than the speed of light.