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Old 12-01-2010, 01:42 AM   #14 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Tusko View Post
yes, i guess laying pipe until she cums several times is a pretty great thing, there's no denying that.

but, from what i've seen, there's definitely something more to be experienced from certain physical additions.
obviously not in all women, yes.
but during sex, the threshold between pleasure and pain starts to blur and it becomes more of a visceral sensory experience, where something in non-sex time may be received as painful, it is incorporated into the sensuality of the moment.

essentially, when i'm cumming i think all manner of vile things; that goes without saying. i feel at that moment my brain is functioning at a heightened state, able to multitask abstract images in a way it's hard to achieve at any other time.

i feel almost as though i'm offering myself up, and i'm demanding violent sensory bombardment.

when a girl is riding me on top, i have her pulled down close to me for maximum control and i'm hammering away, hearing her quiver and quake as she cums from my simple penetration is so super satisfying. i agree there.

and certainly, the inverse is true. penetrating a girl, or receiving a good blowjob is fantastic to finish.
but as the tension in my loins mounts, and i climb towards that climax, every nerve ending and neuron in your smpathetic nervous system is erupting, demanding more more more and it becomes less about pain and more about sensation, as i'd assume, the endorphins dull the pain received and transmit it as stimulation.

so, in short. if i can lay a girl on her back/on me and ride her till she's spraying all over my groin, that's incredible. her knees quivering, her body shaking and rasping involuntarily- if that kind of response can be garnered from simple dickthrustings, i can't imagine where you can take her when you attempt to bombard and dominate her senses.


then again, maybe i just have a weak erection and can't pump that well :S
I'm with you on the 'it's more about sensation than it is about pain' thing. I love to play with toys and roles and ..well, people. Some of my favorite things are paddles and nipple clamps and this is not because I love pain. When I'm going about my day, I actually do not like pain, but in the bedroom, in the midst of passionate lovemaking, pain isn't pain...it's sensation. Everything I do in the bedroom is about sensation. It could be chaining someone to a bed or just inviting a new guest to join us. Sex, for me, is about feeling things...physically and emotionally.

This is why I sometimes find myself in a dominant positon, because I want to feel something specific...control.

Sorry about the long run ons, I hope that makes sense.
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