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Issues. Sigh.
He feels threatened or inadequate and inexperienced and will respond over time. This is the time for intimacy. I've found that post-coital talks are the perfect time. You can tell him what you loved about what preceded, making him feel more confident. As he begins to gain confidence, you should be able to slowly open the conversation and eventually he'll feel comfortable enough to experiment and do what it takes to satisfy you.
Sex is an important part of the relationship and a great indicator of the relationship and its future.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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