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Well, I'm going to build all of this off the shy bit you said.
I think you're not going to change him being turned off when you initiate strongly because it's an extension of his introversion, at least that what I say about myself feeling the exact same way. Turning it to a performance, or 'on demand' bit destroys my will to participate in anything. I hate being the center of attention, even if it's the attention of only one other person. It's also why I'm never going to feel comfortable talking dirty - it's not who I am and might not be who he is either; if that's the case it most likely never will be, either.
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