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Yeah I have to agree it isn't necessarily something you can change or fix. If he's not feeling it or just doesn't have it in him to play that role then no amount of coaching is going to change that. Sure he could try but...my god if you've ever been in bed with somebody trying to do something they aren't comfortable with or don't know how to do you'll know how awkward and unattractive it can be, in my case it just ends up being a huge turn off.
My advice would be to just take him as he is and let him express his feelings towards you in his own way. It may not be as exciting but at least its honest and genuine. On the other hand there is no harm in expressing how you feel and asking him to try something new, if it doesn't work then let it be and follow the above advice.
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