Wish I knew, I'm that guy. Any sort of pressure or expectation turns off the faucet and I can't force myself to do anything after that. If it happens randomly or cuddling or something leads into it then I'm OK, but otherwise I find it really difficult. It's killer too, because it leaves the lady feeling unloved or unattractive, and thats simply not the case. It's the lack of experience and the pressure.
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