Take a weekend once a month in which you neglect all your chores and your errands and your nails and just do something different.
And stop telling yourself what you need to do all together. Nobody likes to be bossed around.
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Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats. - Diane Arbus
PESSIMISM, n. A philosophy forced upon the convictions of the observer by the disheartening prevalence of the optimist with his scarecrow hope and his unsightly smile. - Ambrose Bierce
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