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Be careful what you do. If you are mature, careful, and above all, sensitive to what she's feeling, you have an opportunity on your hands here, one that doesn't come along very often in life:
Friend. With. Benefits.
If you stop trying to be her bf entirely, and instead slowly maneuver yourself into being a friend but WITH physical aspects (ie, second base action on a regular basis and maybe even going all the way), you can get into that most desireable of all positions. Essentially, if you swing this right, you could end up having free sex with someone you are friends with whenever neither of you is involved with someone else.
The trick is both to convince her that you don't feel you have a true bf/gf relationship (best bet: start seeing other girls in between sessions with her to prove you aren't trying to "get" her back) AND also convince her that you'll be able to just stop doing it when she gets a bf... and then hopefully start again when and if she dumps him or gets dumped.
Be careful, be sensitive, and take it very slow. May the force be with you.
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