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Originally Posted by Plan9
Goddamnit, I really wish my alternate personalities would stop posting anonymously.
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Plan9, thank you for owning up to being the OP of the sex while breastfeeding thread.
no, seriously...
i think the OP needs to pen his thoughts. All of them.
Write them down, have a good think about each one, even evalute each though your own eyes, as well as hers. write down what you do like about the relationship, and what you dont. then after youve done that over a few days, think about it a bit more and make the decision you think is right.
no relationship is going to be perfect. anyone who tells you otherwise is a crock of shit. What you need to realise is that you are young and you have your life ahead of you. You just need to decide whether you want your best friend in those plans or not.
i was your age when i got married. when i think about it now i was young immature and so full of it and not ready to get married. i made many mistakes, and you learn from it. but at 23, you have a lot of learning, so dont think that the decision you made will be the right one. it may look like it at the time, but time is the best judge of these things.
Like jazz said, it looks like you've already made up your mind about being unhappy in the relationship. If thats what you think you are after serious thought, just make sure she knows why. dont just up and leave cos you'll never get closure, and neither will she. maybe even show her those thoughts you wrote down. it might make her understand a little better.
just remmeber that if you leave and ever have regrets about going back, that they'll always be a scar that'd never? heal.