Speaking from experience, there is a shut off valve between mother and partner, when a baby is involved. It is normal to react to heaving bosoms, but nursing and sex are two very opposing things. I had a childless (female) friend, who could barely even talk about the fact that I went through with this act of barbarianism and would squirm with embarrassment when I strategically and innocently opened my blouse. God forbid, I ever mention “feeding” in front of her boob-loving husband.
“Don’t you get turned on?” She had asked me.
The answer is an emphatic NO! Nursing provides a very special instant between Mom and baby and men don’t really fit into this equation. Honestly, that is kind of the beauty of it. Nursing is probably THE most sacred of all female mammalian moments.
So, just for the record, the last thing on her mind, when she whips out her boob for a baby is your dick.
But, yeah. It’s okay for you to be turned on.
It’s just not very likely that she will be.
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