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There's a fine line been honest and too honest however. I'm generally very large on integrity, but tell her general stuff, but don't go down a list of very specific things like a line-by-line refutation in a policy debate. Give her not just the "jist" of things, but provide maybe one or two examples of the overall to give her knowledge of what she is and is not doing for you and try to figure it out for the next one. There is no such thing as "letting em down easy" because the question "Why?" is never an easy one. Sure, the reasons could be easy to figure out, but the decision sure ain't easy to deliver.

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